The Start of the New Year!

Since I get to enjoy the day off work for the new year, my little man is making sure I get to experience everything to the fullest. 

That means all his crazy mood swings, messes and general crazy! 

I wouldn’t have it any other way! 

Happy New Year everyone! 


Family Updates!

As much as I would love to sit down and blog daily – heck even weekly would be fine with me- my schedule just hasn’t allowed it to happen. I feel like so many things have occurred in the last few weeks, so I will do my best to state them all.

First off, I wrote last about how I was battling depression and I am happy to report that it is now completely gone. There were a lot of factors that assisted with helping me escape the never-ending black hole, but at least I am out of the tunnel.

In other news, my husband and I have been given the opportunity for me to pursue my dream job. Recently I accepted a new job position and I just finished my first workweek. I am in love, and I hope the love I feel for this job continues.

Swanky new office!
Swanky new office!

That does mean though that for now my husband will be a SAHD (Stay-at-home-dad). So there maybe a shift in my blog to a full blown website with both my husband and I.

"Hey Dad, what are you doing in my bed?"
“Hey Dad, what are you doing in my bed?”
Tobias and his Daddy hanging out in his crib.
Tobias and his Daddy hanging out in his crib.

After a few months of late-night tears and constant crying we thought for sure Tobias had some teeth coming in, but no such luck. Poor kid is still toothless, but at least I still get plenty of those gummy-grins everyone loves!

Happy boy!
Happy boy!

Tobias is trying so hard to  walk without assistance. He has taken about 10 steps all by himself, then he will just fall to the ground and smile up at you with a big cheesy grin. He has also learned how to fake cough and sneeze to get your attention…I am not a fan of the fake coughing 😦

There is plenty more that has been happening, but I don’t want to bore you.

I hope everyone had a great Labor Day!


First Family Vacation

When most people think of vacation they get excited – I am not most people.

Don’t get me wrong I love vacations, every one needs a break now and again, but I am a planner by nature. Add a baby into that and you have one stressed out momma!

Everything that I packed was based off where we were going, what we would be doing, and where we were staying – and it still wasn’t enough! This includes items to help my child sleep peacefully– and let me tell you it is very hard to get a baby to bed in a hotel when there are high school basketball teams surrounding your room! (Go Warriors!)

But after it was all said and done we had a great time.

Here are 5 tips if you are traveling with a baby younger than 1 year old.

Note: our vacation had 10+ people so some of these tips may seem like common sense, but it never hurts to be reminded.

1. Breathe

I know this step sounds basic, but for me it was essential. When you are with a large group there are things that are out of your control. For instance, on our way to the hotel Tobias was just done with the whole car ride he screamed and cried for 2 hours and nothing I did could calm him. I know its sad, but I made a short clip of it, honestly his face is so cute when he cries…I just couldn’t help it!

2. Stop trying to control everything

IMG_2556Maybe I am the only one, but I love order (I know I am not the only one, my sister-in-law and I battled it out on our vacation to see who was really in control.

Most of the time it isn’t worth it. If you want to enjoy your vacation with the 10+ people in your party and your baby you just have to go with the flow. Sadly, it took me until day 3 to figure this part out.


3. Pack plenty of play clothes
Now what I mean by play clothes are clothing that you don’t mind if they get stained and dirty. After returning home and doing laundry, even with Shout, stains were set. Now personally I don’t care if my son has stained clothing, but some do so just be prepared that no matter what you do to prevent it, something will get messed up.IMG_2534

4. Bring extra clothes for you

I didn’t think it was necessary to bring extra clothing for my husband and I. I made sure I packed extra clothing for Tobias, but never thought anything would happen to our clothes. Boy, I was so wrong. The second day my son decided it would be funny to pee on me!

Yes, I had everything covered, but his little hands moved quickly and he wiped it out and peed. It soaked through everything I was wearing and the whole time he was just smiling!

I have to be honest though, I can’t be mad – he is just too cute to stay mad at!

5. Relax and spend time with your family

IMG_2546Since I work full-time I don’t get to see my son often, so it was very important to me that I spent as much time with my son as I could, but I also got to spend time with my brother and his family and of course our parents.

We don’t live to far from our families, but we don’t get to see them all the time, so I was really enjoying talking to my nieces and nephews and hearing about their adventures at school and with baseball and soccer.IMG_2526My husband and I are embarking on a new journey soon and I know that it will take me further from our family. This time with them was precious and greatly needed!


These are just a few tips, too be honest I could keep going, but I am sure you would get bored!

Also, here is a video of Tobias swimming for the first time! Hope you enjoy!

What are some of your favorite memories from one of your family vacations? Leave a response in the comments below!

Happy Monday!